SEPTEMBER, 2004 NEWSLETTER

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What I Heard...... Truth or Myth? Say it isn't so...a customer of mine phoned me today to talk about a recent inquiry she received. The Bride called for DJ Services and when asked where the location of the reception was, the bride didn't want to answer. The DJ Service, naturally, indicated she needed to know where the reception was going to be before quoting a price. The bride still didn't want to answer. When asked why she didn't want to answer her response stunned the DJ. The bride indicated that she wished not to disclose where she was having the reception because she had heard that wedding vendors hoist their prices if it's a high end reception location. This is absolutely a myth, or bad rumor. Wedding Professionals need to know this information to quote an accurate price. It has to be determined if travel time is involved, or if they can even service the event whereas if they have more than one wedding booked and it's in a completely opposite direction, chances are they won't even keep you on the phone any longer. Many wedding professionals are servicing more than one wedding a day. Generally, it is the first question you will be asked, from all wedding vendors. Don't believe this myth! Visit Our "What I Heard" Archives ************************************************

Tips for Wedding Gown Shopping

You've found the groom, perhaps even the wedding location, now it's time to look for The Dress!!! Here are a few helpful hints and advice on shopping for a wedding gown. 1. Probably the most important tip, have something to eat before you shop, trying on those heavy gowns can be akin to a day at the gym! 2. Appointments are helpful. Though you may be tempted to drop into a shop and start looking on the first Saturday afternoon following your proposal, be aware that setting up appointments will afford you more assistance at the salon. Also, bear in mind that weekends are very busy at most formalwear shops, especially during the spring prom season. 3. Scan that pile of magazines on your coffee table and bring along sample photos of dresses that you like. Don't be afraid to show your bridal consultant photos of neckline, hem, train, sleeve. She will use these as a guide to the styles you are partial to. 4. Try several different styles and design elements to see what flatters your figure most. Don't get caught up in current trends alone. Also, try several different fabric colors. Shades are available from purest white to ivory to rose to mocha. Many gowns are available in a choice of color or two-tone as well. 5. Wear undergarments that you will not be embarrassed to be seen in, or carry along a strapless or longline bra and a slip. Many reputable shops provide or require in-the-dressingroom assistance so sample gowns do not withstand too much wear and tear. If you are uncomfortable with this kind of help, just realize that bridal consultants have experience in fabrics, dress lines and current styles and are trained to ensure you a good fit and flattering style. 6. Don't bring along an entourage - 1 or 2 girlfriends or Mom is enough. Choose to take your bridal party along for bridesmaid dresses another day. Changingrooms are small and too many opinions can also be confusing. 7. Sizing- Do not be surprised if you are fitted for a larger size wedding gown than your usual off- the-rack size. Wedding gown size charts are based on a bust, waist and hip proportion measurement. Your measurements are compared to the specific designers' diagram. Each designer uses their own chart for sizing purposes. Many wedding gown retailers will allow you to sign off on ordering a smaller size than suggested by the manufacturer if you are dieting or expect to lose weight, at your own risk, but be aware that most gowns can be taken in up to two dress sizes but can only be let out minimally, if at all. There are also often additional charges for extra length (usually 5'9" or taller,) plus size gowns and of course, custom requests. 8. Alterations- Myth- Gown retailers purposely order a size too large to ensure alteration charges. As noted above, gown retailers match your measurements to the vendor's sizing chart to find the best size for you. Therefore, if your waist and hip measurements fit a size 8 but your bust fits a 12, you'll need to order the gown to fit your largest measurement and alter the gown down to your smaller measurements. The majority of wedding gowns do require alterations of some kind. 9. Take your time, but don't wait too long. Many vendors can require 9 months for delivery. Why does this take so long? National Brand gowns are cut in cycles and orders are completed as each size is made available. 10. Follow care directions from your bridal shop when you bring it home. Most salons will press your gown before pickup and suggest that you remove the garment bag as soon as possible so it will not wrinkle. It is best to place a clean sheet on the floor and hang the gown (veil and petticoat) in a spare room away from people and pets to insure that it stays clean. You may also ask your salon if the dress may be spot steamed with a hand held steamer if needed. Some fabrics show watermarks and are not to be steamed, so be sure to ask first. 11. Dance the night away in a gown that suits your style, personality and the formality of your wedding day!!! Copyright 2004 Melanie Bibbo

Thank You Melanie Bibbo of Blissful Beginnings Wedding Planning and Coordination, for providing this helpful information!

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Great Book For Brides...Just Released Wedding Day Wisdom... Don't Overlook Details which otherwise Might Be Obvious by the founder of NH Wedding Magazine and Get Married Anywhere
Don't gamble with your wedding day...Learn from the Mistakes of Others! Wedding Day Wisdom" is a lighthearted look at wedding planning details easily overlooked, and some things that can go wrong. With so many different considerations involved in planning a wedding, from ring to reception, band to budget - it's easy to get caught up in the big picture and overlook the Little details that can make the Big difference. From toppled wedding cakes to lost wedding parties, Ginger Thulander has seen much. According to her, "Nobody plans for these things to happen. It's more a case of good intentions gone awry. I saw a need for a book that would not only provide guidance, but that would illustrate potential consequences in a way that would make them memorable." 50 short stories, each closes with Words of Wisdom, based on a lifetime of experience, to prevent these bloopers and mishaps from happening to you. Here's what people are saying about Wedding Day Wisdom This book was awesome! Very different from what I've seen on the shelves so far- great with all those stories. I love to read about others weddings. I got tons of ideas and learned about lots of things not to do- as well as things not to forget about! Great job! Jody Serewicz, Bride to be A great look at the Human side of weddings. It is a quick and easy read with many tips to keep your feet on the ground or down the aisle! Richard Markel President, Association for Wedding Professionals Int'l.
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Terrific Reference Book!
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